If your sex life is not functioning well, then Psychosexual Therapy, also known as Sex Therapy, can help get your sex life back on track. Together we will unravel what might be going wrong and then look at an appropriate programme of exercises for you to complete at home, so you can put the passion back into your relationship and feel more confident sexually.
Whether you are married, in a partnership, or in a short or long-term relationship, Couple Therapy can change the way you live your life together. It can help you through any number of difficult times in your relationship. Together we will explore what’s happening, work towards having the relationship you want, and find the connection you might have lost.
If you are feeling lost and unsure about the direction you are going, or feeling you need to talk to someone about how you are feeling, individual therapy can help identify what might be happening to you and explore ways to cope better or change the way you live your life. It’s an opportunity to change how you feel and overcome the challenges you might be experiencing.
Booking an initial appointment will help us discuss your concerns in more depth. I can then see how I can help. If I can help, and you feel I am the right person for you, we can then organise further ongoing weekly sessions, if that is appropriate.
Find ways to be more sensual with your partner, to feel connected and sexual without losing yourself.
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We all want to be happy. Finding happiness is not always easy, but it’s there if you look in the right places and take a moment for yourself.
When things go wrong, we often don’t know what to do. Affairs, arguments, negative thoughts, challenging emotions, what should we do?
Coming for counselling or psychotherapy can be a daunting prospect for many people. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea. Not everyone wants to do it. Still, once you have experienced psychotherapy, it can change your life forever (in a good way, of course).
As a registered psychotherapist/counsellor specialising in sexual relationships, I know talking about difficult issues can be challenging and distressing. I, therefore, bring sensitivity and an enquiring mind to my work, along with significant expertise in the field of sex and relationships.
I would highly recommend Andrew! I have always found our sessions very accommodating, caring and attentive. It has really opened up the communication between myself and my partner and we lead a much more nurturing and fun relationship together. It has truly changed us both for the better and forever too. I can't express in words how grateful I am for Andrew.
Female, Yoga teacher
Andrew is a compassionate and thorough professional who is easy to talk to and someone who asks the pertinent questions which make one think and reflect, all of which make the process positive and very worthwhile.
Self Employed Musician and Teacher
What a difference! When I first met Andrew I thought he would have to charge me extra for all the tissues I used. However, Andrew worked at my pace – not pushing me to face things I wasn’t ready to face but steadily encouraging me to deal with not just the issue I had come to him with but to look at my wider life and how things may have, and may still be, influencing how I was feeling at the current time. Over time the focus of the sessions changed from all that had been bad in my life to looking to the future. With Andrew’s support I have “boxed up” the old and am now free to plan and enjoy the opportunities and happiness life has to offer. I have now finished my sessions and can honestly say I feel like the person I was 20 odd years ago (maybe a bit older and wiser) and am looking forward to my future. Thank you Andrew! This has been an incredible experience and I would whole heartedly recommend you to anyone seeking counselling.
Director in Healthcare
We would whole-heartedly recommend you, Andrew. From the first moment that we made contact, you were absolutely professional but more importantly committed to our progress and development as a couple. We've been through a heavily traumatic experience and without your guidance, support and at times absolute honesty to make things clear and transparent to us, we wouldn't be the stronger couple that we are today. We've both learnt a lot about ourselves as well as learning a huge amount about our relationship. Thank you.
Senior Professional Couple in Education
I highly recommend Andrew. At first I was apprehensive to tell a total stranger my problems. I found I could easily talk to Andrew, and he listened and listened. I found he worked out all the issues very cleverly, and thoughtfully. Andrew advises in a way which is not demeaning or makes us feel small. Rather in a more human way. I respect Andrew a lot for opening my eyes to many things, and showing me light when I felt there was none. Seriously I will miss our sessions, however I hope in the future if the need arises, there is only one place I'll go back to! Thank you Andrew, sincerely, from my heart, total respect.
IT Consultant
Thank you for your support and guidance during this difficult time. It has helped us to move towards a positive outcome. All the best.
Gay Male Couple
I don’t even know where to start. Thank you so much for all your support over the last 6 weeks. I don’t know what I would have done without you. You truly are an amazing person and you have helped me more than you know. I will never forget you. Thank you
Single Professional Women
I thought Andrew helped us to achieve a remarkable amount in a very short time and am not quite sure how he did it! He listens well; links things that have been said previously to form connections; and helps to identify patterns or things of importance. He is not afraid to challenge which was perhaps the most helpful thing for me. He highlighted issues that might need further work at some point and gave the resources for me to pursue that. Thank you!
Professional Couple in Education & Clergy
The overall experience with Andrew was very relaxing, we learnt how to talk about things that we wouldn’t have otherwise. After the sessions it felt like we had got rid of some of our burdens.
Married Entrepreneurial Couple
The sessions with Andrew were ‘uplifting’ and it helped me to reset my goals and reassess my life as I approach a pre retirement age. I can look, with confidence, to the years ahead.
Managing Director of an International Company
“I would highly recommend Andrew! I have always found our sessions very accommodating, caring and attentive. It has really opened up the communication between myself and my partner and we lead a much more nurturing and fun relationship together. It has truly changed us both for the better and forever too. I can’t express in words how grateful I am for Andrew.
– Female Yoga teacher
“Before coming to Andrew, I had seemingly insurmountable sexual issues, which had been degrading for 3 years. I felt stressed in my career, and in my personal life, that I couldn’t do anything to the high standards I set for myself and that my partner didn’t understand me. Throughout our sessions, Andrew established my background and lifestyle and got a detailed picture of my history. Tailed to this, he suggested doing exercises and mindfulness training to help slow down my mind when thinking about sex. I was sceptical of this at first because I wondered about how relevant it would be but it genuinely did help me feel more relaxed over time. The sessions I had with Andrew reframed what I understood sex to be, in a way that better reflected the reality of what sex is rather than my own expectations. I still have milestones to reach but Andrew has given me a solid foundation to work on. For that reason, I wholeheartedly recommend him to anyone who is encountering long-term sexual problems in their relationship.
– Software Engineer
“I saw Andrew when I was going through a very dark period in my work life. I felt lost, I could not stop crying, and I could not open up about what was going on with anyone in my family. Andrew provided a safe environment, I was able to talk to him, and he guided me towards the answers I was seeking. After our appointments, he would follow up with materials and activities for me to look up, so the therapy continued after our conversations. He answered my questions in between sessions and helped me unravel what was going on. I found myself stronger and grounded after our sessions; he gave me the tools to deal with the situation and helped me find the inner strength to move on. I will always be grateful to Andrew for his invaluable help. Thank you
– Professional Woman in Biotech
“I have been reflecting on our sessions quite a lot. I am not exactly sure what changed nor how, but I no longer feel that I just exist. I feel illuminated and have a strong sense of purpose. I do not know where I’m going nor where it will end, but I feel 20 again, and quite frankly I’m running with it. My writing continues to bring immense pleasure. Thank you Andrew, for getting my creative juices flowing.
– Female NHS Professional and future author
“Andrew is a compassionate and thorough professional who is easy to talk to and someone who asks the pertinent questions which make one think and reflect, all of which make the process positive and very worthwhile.
– Self Employed Musician and Teacher
“What a difference! When I first met Andrew I thought he would have to charge me extra for all the tissues I used. However, Andrew worked at my pace – not pushing me to face things I wasn’t ready to face but steadily encouraging me to deal with not just the issue I had come to him with but to look at my wider life and how things may have, and may still be, influencing how I was feeling at the current time. Over time the focus of the sessions changed from all that had been bad in my life to looking to the future. With Andrew’s support I have “boxed up” the old and am now free to plan and enjoy the opportunities and happiness life has to offer. I have now finished my sessions and can honestly say I feel like the person I was 20 odd years ago (maybe a bit older and wiser) and am looking forward to my future. Thank you Andrew! This has been an incredible experience and I would whole heartedly recommend you to anyone seeking counselling.
– Director in Healthcare
“I think therapy takes time and requires a bit of patience. There are no quick fixes. Andrew is very good at finding the real root cause of the issue and always giving suggestions that may help.
– Young Professional Man
“Andrew was great. He made us feel very relaxed and offered a very open space to talk. He listened to each of us equally, in a nonjudgmental way and picked up on interesting things to help us reflect. I’d highly recommend him.
– Female professional couple
“We would whole-heartedly recommend you, Andrew. From the first moment that we made contact, you were absolutely professional but more importantly committed to our progress and development as a couple. We’ve been through a heavily traumatic experience and without your guidance, support and at times absolute honesty to make things clear and transparent to us, we wouldn’t be the stronger couple that we are today. We’ve both learnt a lot about ourselves as well as learning a huge amount about our relationship. Thank you.
– Senior Professional Couple in Education
“I thought Andrew helped us to achieve a remarkable amount in a very short time and am not quite sure how he did it! He listens well; links things that have been said previously to form connections; and helps to identify patterns or things of importance. He is not afraid to challenge which was perhaps the most helpful thing for me. He highlighted issues that might need further work at some point and gave the resources for me to pursue that. Thank you!
– Professional Couple in Education & Clergy
Book an initial consultation. We can then discuss your concerns in depth and see how I can help. We can then organise further ongoing weekly sessions, if that is appropriate.
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