Demonstrating you care about the person you love can take many forms. Some of us embrace how to show we care. Others aren't so sure what caring looks like, while some feel overwhelmed or smothered by too much "caring". How we show we care might not precisely...
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Making more time to notice… This is a short extract from one of the chapters in the book I'm currently writing for busy couples. I'd love to hear what you think about it so far...
Two tips to change arguments Arguments can become quite repetitive and never-ending for many couples. They can also become spiteful as you might be feeling cornered, vulnerable and scared. So you retaliate. You might also not be managing your own feelings, so you start to lash out....
“I like this thing of us saying exactly what we mean. I wonder if things would have been different if we’d done it a long time ago?”, says Grace. “Probably not where we ended up, but getting there might have been better”, says Robert. The quote...
Are you the same person as you were when you fell in love? One of the questions that seem to get couples thinking about who they are in their relationship is: “When you first met, what attracted you to your partner?” A lot of couples feel that the person...
Being a tourist I don’t know about you, but I like being a tourist. While it has its negative connotations, I like to think, as a tourist, I might actually become part of the place I’m visiting. The idea of being a tourist can be a spellbinding...
Negative Thoughts When it comes to arguments, we are sometimes transported back to a bad experience we had arguing with our partner or our parents. This experience can provoke various negative feelings and thoughts about ourselves, our partners, our parents, or the person with whom we...
Counselling Men As I opened the front door a rush of icy air entered the vestibule. A slender man in his late forties stood there. He was dressed in a grey hooded top, white shirt and dark blue jeans. He looked very distinguished with his short...
What's the problem with men and their feelings? I've lost count of how many times women ask me this question. It's an age-old problem: men just don't like to talk about their feelings. As a relationship therapist, I've heard many stories about why men don't talk about...
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