The magic of music: revealing untold stories of romance

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Music plays its part

Have you seen the John Lewis Christmas advert (2016) with Buster the Boxer?  It’s very poignant. It’s poignant in a couple of ways for me.  One is the joy to see the delight, secrecy, excitement and spirit of young children bouncing with enthusiasm waiting to receive their surprise in the morning. The other is the parent’s exhaustion, love and care to make their children over-joyed with the tingling of fairy tales, myths and the spirit of Christmas along with the gift the parents have worked hard to give to their children.  The other is the mystical nature of the story that unfolds. The very thing we don’t see when it comes to Christmas as children and adults.  The fun, excitement and amusement of what is unseen and untold may be observed by only a few, such as Buster the Boxer in the John Lewis advert.

However, what really sets the story apart is the music. Vaults sing the amazing song One Day I’ll Fly Away, which evokes a potent emotional response. The song underpins the love and loss we feel in the story. The song was originally sung by Randy Crawford, which was a number 2 hit in 1980. The original song for me evokes a profound emotional response as the song tells another story.  A more personal story. A story of sadness, loss and love.

The loss in the John Lewis advert is there, as Baxter lost out on his fun during the night. But then he has his first moment of excitement while the little girl and her parents watch on in disbelief as well as amazement.

The advert for me was about the untold hidden stories we all have.  The music reinforces this in a more emotionally charged way. It reminded me of how music can play a significant part in our lives. Music can underpin our decisions, our mood, and can evoke melancholy as well as happy feelings, romantic, loving feelings and even sexual feelings, or as Marvin Gaye would have said “Sexual Healing”.  No pun intended.

Creating your music

The music reminded me that we all have a song that transports us back to a moment in time. Capturing how life once was. Songs create overwhelming emotions.  Emotions that are exciting, fun that make us happy as well as sad songs that make us want to cry.

Each of us has a soundtrack to our lives whether we want one or not.  There will be a song that resonates with us, one that reverberates our emotional strings. One that gets our rhythm going, our feet tapping, our body moving, our romantic, loving, sexual side going.

If you were to put a couple of playlists together what would be the songs and the music on them? If you were to add songs to these themes what would they be?

  • If your life was turned into a film, what music and songs would be on the soundtrack?
  • What songs or music would you add to your romantic life with your partner?
  • What songs would you add if you had a fabulous, fabulous party in the sun??
  • What songs or music would you have if you wanted to get your erotic, sexual side going, that you might even play when making love?
Pick one on the list and put some songs or music together and play them to your partner. Explain what the music means to you and why you picked those particular songs.

Remember those hidden moments we often don’t see in others? Music and songs can provide an opportunity to tell another story to your partner that they might not know. It’s an opportunity to create that unsaid connection with them as well as enjoy the songs and music in your life. Reveal your hidden stories through the music and songs that have affected you. Share them with the ones you love. Get to know the music and rhythms of your partner’s life.[clickToTweet tweet=”Music can reveal untold stories. Share the music & songs you love to connect with your partner.” quote=”Music can reveal the untold stories of our life. Share the music and songs you love to connect romantically with your partner.”]

Share your experiences together through the music and songs you both love.

Have fun composing your soundtrack, and let me know what your playlist would be and why.[/vc_column_text]

 


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